If you’ve ever watched a sea of smiling women in matching outfits cheering outside a sorority house and thought, “How do I become one of them?”—you’re not alone.

Joining a sorority might feel like a mystery wrapped in glitter and Greek letters, but it’s not as complicated as it looks. Here's your no-stress, sparkle-free guide to how it really works.

Step 1: Sign Up for Recruitment

Most campuses host sorority recruitment (aka rush) at the beginning of the fall or spring semester. You’ll need to:

• Register online through your campus’ Panhellenic or Greek Life office

• Submit your GPA, resume, and sometimes a photo

• Pay a small registration fee

Pro Tip: Do this early. Recruitment spots fill up fast, and prep starts before classes even begin.

Step 2: Go Through Recruitment Rounds

Recruitment is usually a multi-day process with themed rounds. You’ll meet women from each chapter and learn about:

• Philanthropy events

• Chapter values

• Sisterhood culture

• What makes each sorority unique

Each day, you’ll narrow down your preferences—and they’ll do the same. It’s like very organized speed dating… but with better outfits.

Step 3: Be Yourself (Seriously)

Chapters are looking for women who are authentic, kind, and engaged. You don’t need a perfect GPA, flawless hair, or a rehearsed speech.

Just be real.
Ask questions.
Smile.
Listen.

The right chapter will want you just as you are.

Step 4: Preference Night & Bid Day

The final day of recruitment is called Preference Night—and it’s emotional. You’ll spend time with one or two chapters and choose your final preference.

The next day? Bid Day.
This is when you receive a formal invitation (aka a bid) to join a sorority—and celebrate with your new sisters. Expect chants, confetti, and lots of hugs.

Step 5: New Member Period

Once you accept your bid, you’ll begin your new member education program, which includes:

• Learning the history and values of your sorority

• Meeting your Big Sister (your mentor)

• Attending chapter events and sisterhood bonding nights

• Preparing for initiation

This is when things get real—and really good.

Final Thought:

Joining a sorority isn’t about popularity or perfect resumes.
It’s about finding a community where you can grow, lead, and belong.

So take a deep breath.
Dress cute, walk in confident, and trust that the right chapter will see you.

Because sisterhood? It’s waiting for you on the other side of that door.