What Is a Fraternity Sweetheart?

Okay, let’s clear this up—being a fraternity sweetheart doesn’t mean you're dating the whole chapter (although that rumor loves to travel faster than a group text). A fraternity sweetheart is an honorary title given to someone—usually a sorority woman—who holds a special place in the heart of a fraternity.

She’s respected, admired, and appreciated for her friendship, support, and sometimes even her legendary baked goods. But above all, she’s chosen.

So, What Does a Sweetheart Do?

Think of her as the chapter’s honorary sister—minus the pledging. A sweetheart is often:

• A go-to supporter at events, fundraisers, and chapter functions

• Someone who’s formed genuine friendships with many of the brothers

• A bridge between sororities and fraternities, often helping to plan joint events

• A chapter ambassador who might be crowned at formal events like banquets or balls

Some chapters even give her a special jersey, sash, or title in the composite (cue the scrapbook moment).

How Is a Sweetheart Chosen?

It varies by chapter, but the process usually involves nominations and a vote. It’s not a popularity contest—it’s about who shows up, supports the chapter, and fits the spirit of the fraternity. Some sweethearts are active sorority members; others are alumnae, close friends, or even faculty members.

The main thing? She’s earned it.

Is It Romantic?

Not necessarily. While some sweethearts have dated members of the chapter, many are chosen purely out of respect and admiration. This title isn’t about romance—it’s about recognition.

Why It Matters

Being named a fraternity sweetheart is more than just a title—it’s a sign of trust, appreciation, and tradition. It means you’ve made an impact. You’ve supported, connected, and cared. And that’s something to be proud of.

Final Thought:
In a world of mixers and Greek alphabet soup, a fraternity sweetheart stands out not because she asked to—but because the chapter saw something in her that felt like home.

And honestly? That’s kind of beautiful.